On Thursday, I will wed under the full blue moon.
Post by guest blogger Jacki.
Here is our story:
At around 7:30 p.m. on Thursday, Dec. 31, JB and I will be married by my friend Coleen, an organic non fu fu great lady friend. She got her license to perform weddings in March of this year just for me, knowing I could not go into a public building or church setting. She is so excited that she will now be able to use her license.
My sister Laurie will be my witness. She is just starting to learn to be fu fu free. She loves using vinegar and baking soda on her clothes and Dr Bronners on her skin, and coconut oil on her food and body. She has come a long way, baby. Out of three sisters, she is the only one that has “made adjustments to her life” to accommodate my Multiple Chemical Sensitivity and to live a healthier lifestyle herself. She loves the change.
Laurie is now noticing dryer sheets in the neighborhoods, and automatic air fresheners in public restrooms. It is cute ‘cause now she calls me “complaining” about toxic items people use. It makes me feel so much more connected with her. I am so lucky after 10 years she finally “gets it.” Now if only the other two sisters would.
Today, JB and I went to the city to get our marriage license. JB did all the work, went into the public building, 6th floor, and filled out all the paper work. I’d called and begged the licensing officials to let me sign the papers outside due to my MCS, but they didn’t seem very cooperative so I brought my big respirator mask with me.
Sitting in the car waiting for JB to call me up to the 6th floor, I was so pleasantly surprised to see him walking a woman out to the car, in a blizzard snow storm! She was kind enough and compassionate enough to come outside in the blizzard to let me sign all the paper work outside. I was willing to meet her at the door but she said the building is full of scented air fresheners and sanitizers.
She recognized my name and remembered me from the old neighborhood where she lived two doors down from my sister. She said she wanted to help me out and not get me ill, so she came out with JB in a blizzard and let me sign all the papers from the safety of our car. I had tears of joy and gratitude streaming down my face to think she was so compassionate to let me sign my marriage papers from my car instead of the 6th floor of a toxic public building… wow. There is such a thing as compassion and kindness left in this world, and JB and I witnessed it today.
So on Dec 31st, at around 7:30 p.m., at the very spot where we met, JB and I will wed under the full blue moon. Snow, rain, sleet, clouds, or a clear night, we will be in the woods in the fresh air, with the heavens above and the wild creatures as our witnesses. But mostly we will be in love’s light and God’s light to start the new year, the new decade, 2010, as one in unity
as Mr. and Mrs.
Fifty-two years old and I am a blushing bride-to-be, amazing.
This is the lesson:
To write your own happy story even when all the odds are against you and all the challenges seem too big to take.
To take a deep breath and believe that all things happen for a reason to learn, to grow, to become better and more spiritual and more simple and more LOVE.
To re-write your story to have a HAPPY ending.
To remember it is your story and you are the creature of the illusion; some things we cannot change, but we can always change our attitude and our eyes about how we see things.
To make sure your glass is always half full, and the sky mostly sunny.
And to be grateful for every breath on this earth, no matter what.
Love,
jj
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